If youâ€™ve been toying with the idea of anal sex and are still on the fence, here are some reasons to take the plunge, bum first.
And anal orgasms can be intense
Yeah, they can! Thatâ€™s because the anus is packed with loads of sensitive nerve endings, some of which are connected to the genitals. And thatâ€™s not all!
In cisgender men and people assigned male at birth, anal sex can stimulate the prostate and lead to an orgasm. Prostate orgasms are intense enough to send waves of orgasmic pleasure from head to toe.
For cisgender women and people assigned female at birth, anal sex can hit two hot spots: the G-spot and A-spot. Both are located along the vaginal wall but can be indirectly stimulated during anal.
Like the prostate, these spots have the potential to produce full-body orgasms. Rubbing them just right may even lead to squirting and the phenom referred to as â€œfemale ejaculation.â€ Yes, please!
Some still consider it taboo, which could make it more exciting
Even though anal sex is a lot more common than before, itâ€™s still just taboo enough to bring in that element of naughtiness that can kick your arousal level into high gear.
Taboo or forbidden sex is a common sexual fantasy. The mere idea of doing something thatâ€™s seen as â€œunusualâ€ or â€œwrongâ€ can be a huge turn-on.
Of course, anal sex is neither of these things, but if itâ€™s not the norm for you or youâ€™ve been raised with certain views on the act, it sure can be.
Plus, it can be a way to explore a new area of your body
You have no idea how pleasurable a part of your body can feel until you explore it. Anal sex offers a completely different sensation than any other type of sex.
Breaking away from your usual is the perfect way to keep things interesting in the bedroom with your partner and when you go solo.
It can also be a way to explore your sexual desires
Been holding out some kinky desires? Opening yourself up to a new experience can help you become more sexually adventurous.
Thereâ€™s something really liberating about taking charge of your pleasure.
Exploring the back roads could give you a case of wanderlust thatâ€™ll lead to new and exciting avenues of pleasure.
And even introduce new sex toys into the mix!
Speaking of new avenues of pleasure. Sex toys make it possible for anyone to be on the giving or receiving end of the pleasure in B-town.
Anal toys are a great way to get your feet wet and recommended before going full-throttle back there.
You can start with a small butt plug for a feeler or use an anal training kit to work your way up to a penis or full-sized dildo or strap-on.
If youâ€™re both interested in being penetrated, you can share the love â€” as long as you use a different toy or sanitize it before sharing.
All of which can help build intimacy if youâ€™re with a partner
It doesnâ€™t get more intimate than sharing such tight quarters with your partner!
Anal sex requires good communication and a lot of time spent trying different angles and positions to find what feels good for both of you.
All of this talk and play can up the intimacy between two people by a bazillion.
There are some health benefits, too
Yep, there are health benefits to be had when it comes to any type of sexual activity, including:
- penetrative sex
- oral sex
Sexual activity has been linked to:
- lower risk of heart disease, hypertension, and stroke
- better sleep, which has its own awesome benefits
- a stronger immune system
- headache relief
- boosted libido
- menstrual cramp relief
- happier mood
Diddling your derriere also has other health benefits.
For instance, prostate stimulation may help prevent and treat erectile dysfunction (ED), prostatitis, and painful ejaculation.
If you happen to have an orgasm during anal â€” any type of orgasm â€” there are other benefits, including:
- stress relief
- reduced inflammation
- pain reduction
- improved circulation
- better skin
And if youâ€™re usually having penis-in-vagina, anal eliminates the risk of pregnancy
How wonderful to be able to enjoy some seriously stimulating penetration without the risk for pregnancy. That doesnâ€™t mean you can kiss barrier protection goodbye, thoughâ€¦
STIs are still possible though, so talk to your partner about safer sex
Penis-in-anus (PIA) sex actually carries a higher risk for sexually transmitted infections (STIs), especially for the receptive partner. Thatâ€™s because the delicate skin in the rectum is thin and prone to tearing.
According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), anal sex is the highest risk activity for HIV transmission.
You can also contract other STIs, such as chlamydia, gonorrhea, and herpes. Thereâ€™s risk for other infections to be transmitted through contact with feces.
Donâ€™t make that face. We all know the butt is where poo comes out. Itâ€™s natural and some contact with it, whether you can see it or not, is a likely possibility.
Practicing safer anal sex is the best way to protect against HIV, STIs, and other infections.
For safer anal sex, use condoms or other barrier protection and lots of lube. Seriously, you canâ€™t use too much back there. Insufficient lube increases your risk of skin tears, which are painful and risky.
Also, never go from penis or sex toy in the anus to the vagina without washing up and changing condoms first.
You donâ€™t want feces and other bacteria from back there getting into your urinary tract where it can wreak some major havoc, including urinary tract infections (UTIs).
Same goes for taking a penis in your mouth after anal. Doing so can introduce bacteria and parasites into your mouth.
All that said, the real benefit is being able to express what you do â€” or donâ€™t â€” want
Variety is the spice of life and the more options in your repertoire oâ€™ love, the better. This gives you and your partner(s) a whole other type of pleasure to enjoy if and how you want.
Mix it up with toys and take turns being on the giving and receiving end â€” whatever tickles your bottom.
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