Can You Get HIV from Kissing? 7 Myths About HIV to Stop Falling For

Curated by Claudia Shannon / Research Scientist / ishonest

It’s been 40 years since the first reported case of HIV in the United States. Today there are around 38,000 new cases of HIV across the country every year.

That’s 4 decades and millions of HIV diagnoses over time. And even though we now have effective treatments that can reduce transmission of HIV and help people who live with the virus avoid developing AIDS, there are still tons of misconceptions about this disease. What gives?

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Here, we break down some of the most common myths about HIV once and for all.

Myth 1: HIV and AIDS are the same thing

We get it: HIV and AIDS have been lumped together for so long that many people (wrongfully) assume they’re the same thing.

But let’s get the facts straight. HIV is a virus that attacks the immune system, while AIDS is a condition that can develop after HIV has caused serious damage.

You can live with HIV and stay healthy for decades without ever developing AIDS, as long as you get treatment. Otherwise, HIV can progress to AIDS in three stages, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC):

  1. Acute HIV infection. This stage involves a lot of HIV in the blood and can come with flu-like symptoms (but some people never feel sick at this stage).
  2. Chronic HIV infection. Also known as asymptomatic HIV infection, this is when HIV is still active but doesn’t reproduce as quickly as in the first stage. People often don’t have symptoms at this point.
  3. AIDS. This is when a person has a high viral load, very low levels of important white blood cells called CD4 cells, and severe damage to their immune system.
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Once upon a time, HIV was sort of seen as a death sentence because of that progression to AIDS. But thanks to treatment options that have been developed over the years, most people with HIV never reach a late-stage infection and often have long, healthy lives.

Myth 2: Abstinence and condoms are the only ways to prevent HIV

Abstinence was touted as a go-to way to prevent HIV transmission back in the ’80s and ’90s. And even today, that potential benefit is used as an argument for abstinence-only sex ed in schools, despite lots of evidence that those programs just don’t work.

Not into the idea of a no-sex lifestyle? Condoms are another option. Research suggests they can reduce the risk of HIV transmission by as much as 95 percent every time you do the deed. That’s why condoms have been recommended as an HIV prevention tool for decades.

However, as of 2012, people got a new option for preventing HIV. That’s when the Food and Drug Administration OK’d the first pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP).

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These meds offer people with known risk factors, like having sex with someone who has HIV or sharing needles for injectable drug use, a way to reduce their risk of contracting HIV by taking one pill per day.

And it works really well. When PrEP is taken as prescribed, it can slash a person’s chances of getting HIV through sex by a whopping 99 percent, according to the CDC.

Myth 3: You can’t get HIV if you’re on birth control

The pill might protect you from an unwanted pregnancy, but it’s no match for HIV. Same goes for other types of birth control, like IUDs, patches, and rings.

If you want to get down without risking HIV transmission, your best bet is to use a condom or other barrier method or PrEP.

Myth 4: You can get HIV from kissing

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Nope, swapping spit doesn’t spread HIV (even though people worried a lot about smooching back in the ’80s). Feel free to hold hands, hug, and share a soda while you’re at it.

HIV can be transmitted only through:

  • blood
  • semen
  • vaginal fluid
  • anal mucous
  • breast milk

Saliva doesn’t carry enough traces of the virus to worry about, and research as far back as the mid- to late ’80s has found that kissing is not a risk factor for transmission of HIV.

Myth 5: HIV can be transmitted through oral sex

OK, there’s a teensy bit of truth behind this myth, but the chances of getting HIV by going down on someone are so low that the risk almost doesn’t exist.

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According to a 2013 research review, the risk of transmitting HIV through oral sex without a condom or other barrier method is about 0.04 percent.

By using barrier methods and/or PrEP, you can pretty much eliminate that risk while still achieving that Big O for yourself and your partner any way you please.

Myth 6: There’s no treatment for HIV

Sure, the early days of HIV and AIDS were grim, just given how little people knew about the virus and the condition.

But treatment has come a long way since the ’80s. Today, antiretroviral medications can greatly reduce the amount of the virus in a person’s body, often to the point that HIV no longer shows up on blood tests.

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When that happens, the person has effectively no risk of transmitting HIV to others. Plus, it helps prevent HIV from progressing.

Myth 7: There’s a cure for HIV

While antiretroviral therapy can substantially reduce the amount of HIV in a person’s blood, it’s not a cure. (But wouldn’t that be nice?) If an HIV-positive person suddenly stops taking their meds, the amount of virus in their blood can skyrocket.

Even skipping doses of the meds can allow HIV to change form and potentially become resistant to the drugs, according to the U.S. Department of Health & Human Services.

The key to living well with HIV and avoiding transmission to others is to get treatment as early as possible and take those meds daily as prescribed.

tl;dr

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From mixtapes to leg warmers, there are plenty of things from the ’80s to feel nostalgic about, but myths about HIV aren’t one of them.

We now know you can’t get HIV from kissing, and it’s nearly impossible for the virus to be transmitted through oral sex — especially if you’re using a barrier method and/or PrEP.

Plus, treatments can help prevent an HIV-positive person from developing AIDS or passing the virus to others.

But these advancements don’t mean as much if misconceptions continue to prevail, so let’s (finally) put these HIV myths to bed — forever.

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